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The Misunderstood in Society
Nowadays, many teenagers are behaving strangely according to the society rules. Some are doing what th society dictates to be wrong. They are doing what their parents prohibits them to do. But why they are doing it? What are the reasons? Do parents can make something to stop this?
There are many reasons why there is so called 'teenage rebellion' in our society. Basically, people tend to blame the parents of these teenager. But why they are blaming the parents? That's because the parents are the molder of their children. But because of wrong guild, the children cross the wrong way. Parents should take care of their children. They have to gibe time and attention.
Some of these teenager, having a very busy parents, do not have a guiding hand in life. We cannot blame the parents because they are doing that to provide a good future for their children. These teenagers tend to make drastic action for their parents to notice them. To say that 'hey parents!I'm here'. Because their parents cannot give them the attention they need, they find it in friends or peers.
Friends cannot easily find. It takes time for a friendship to grow. So these teenager look for peers whom will take them, embrace them of what they are. They are lucky if the peer they got were good. But commonly, they landed on the wrong group. Some of these peers will ask or recruite them to join fraternity. They will say that 'you can be protected' if you join. The teenager, needing a protection, their parents cannot give, will b tempted to join. In here, they will learn to smoke, to drink, and to use prohibited drugs just to please their peers. Pleasing their peer to the point of doing what is prohibited . Because they thinking that their peer will always be there.
But that problem can be avoided. In family, there should be communication. For parents, whether there are busy, should give time. A time where all the member of the family are lacking. A teenager, as a person, with brain to know what is right and what is wrong, should also have to understand that their parents are busy and in doing wrong to themselves it not only your parents they are hurting but also themselves.
By; Iresh Rie G. Dacian
Nowadays, many teenagers are behaving strangely according to the society rules. Some are doing what th society dictates to be wrong. They are doing what their parents prohibits them to do. But why they are doing it? What are the reasons? Do parents can make something to stop this?
There are many reasons why there is so called 'teenage rebellion' in our society. Basically, people tend to blame the parents of these teenager. But why they are blaming the parents? That's because the parents are the molder of their children. But because of wrong guild, the children cross the wrong way. Parents should take care of their children. They have to gibe time and attention.
Some of these teenager, having a very busy parents, do not have a guiding hand in life. We cannot blame the parents because they are doing that to provide a good future for their children. These teenagers tend to make drastic action for their parents to notice them. To say that 'hey parents!I'm here'. Because their parents cannot give them the attention they need, they find it in friends or peers.
Friends cannot easily find. It takes time for a friendship to grow. So these teenager look for peers whom will take them, embrace them of what they are. They are lucky if the peer they got were good. But commonly, they landed on the wrong group. Some of these peers will ask or recruite them to join fraternity. They will say that 'you can be protected' if you join. The teenager, needing a protection, their parents cannot give, will b tempted to join. In here, they will learn to smoke, to drink, and to use prohibited drugs just to please their peers. Pleasing their peer to the point of doing what is prohibited . Because they thinking that their peer will always be there.
But that problem can be avoided. In family, there should be communication. For parents, whether there are busy, should give time. A time where all the member of the family are lacking. A teenager, as a person, with brain to know what is right and what is wrong, should also have to understand that their parents are busy and in doing wrong to themselves it not only your parents they are hurting but also themselves.
By; Iresh Rie G. Dacian
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